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The Rising Star On October 10th WomenRising recognized Domestic Violence Awareness Month with our annual candlelight vigil. The event remembers victims, celebrates the lives of survivors, recognizes community efforts, and educates the public about domestic violence. The evening included an inspirational and moving candle-lighting in recognition of survivors and their families as well as those who have lost their lives due to Domestic Violence. The evening also included a very poignant poem: This month we are remembering victims and celebrating survivors of Domestic Violence. If you are a friend of someone experiencing violence, please listen and believe what your friend says (even if the abuser is your friend too); educate yourself to see the symptoms; and understand that leaving an abusive relationship is not easy. Allow your friend to make decisions at their own pace. For more info call WomenRising at 201/333-5700. Domestic Violence Vigil & Awareness Vol 4, Issue 2 10/19/07 In This Issue b I Got Flowers Today a Author unknown It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night, And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare I couldn’t believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day. Last night, he beat me again. And it was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I’m afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered Enough courage and strength to leave him I would not have gotten flowers today.
«Domestic Violence Vigil & Awareness «You Could Win $1000 for WomenRising «Can We Still Afford to Live Here? «Program Spotlight: DVRT «Our Wishlist «Mark Your Calendars In This Issue “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” -Mahatma Gandhi b I Got Flowers Today a Author unknown It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night, And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare I couldn’t believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day. Last night, he beat me again. And it was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I’m afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral. Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered Enough courage and strength to leave him I would not have gotten flowers today.
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Can We Still Afford to Live Here? A Panel Discussion Thursday, October 25th from Noon to 2pm St. Peter’s College– McIntyre Lounge in Dineen Hall (Corner of Montgomery St. & Kennedy Blvd) For info call Bill at 201/333-5700 ext 542 DVRT-Jersey City A Volunteering Opportunity November ‘07– specific date TBA For more info on becoming a trained volunteer please call Margaret at 201/333-5700 ext 544 Visit our website at www.womenrising.org.   WomenRising Inc. « 270 Fairmount Ave.« Jersey City, NJ 07306-4712 201/333-5700 In order to receive your WomenRising e-newsletter promptly and correctly, please make sure you add akoenig@womenrising.org to your regular address book or "non-bulk" address list.  To unsubscribe to "The Rising Star" WomenRising Inc's E-Newsletter, send a blank e-mail from the address you wish to delete to akoenig@womenrising.org and put "unsubscribe" in your subject line. Mark Your Calendars   Here's what's coming up at WomenRising Inc: Domestic Violence Awareness Month Remembering victims and celebrating survivors October –All Month Long For info and events all over the state see NJ Coalition for Battered Women WomenRising has a regular need for items to be donated. Please consider making a donation from the following list. In addition, we’ve registered an official wishlist with Target.com. Next time you’re shopping online, pop on over and look at our list (don’t forget that by going through igive.com you can help us twice with your purchase!) Here’s our regular list: -Bath towel sets (new) -Coats for women & children (gently used or new- please call for exact sizes needed) -Cell phones & batteries (used) -Comforters (new- twin size for women, children, and teens) -Curtains & blinds (call for size) -Crib sheet sets (new) -Ink Jet Cartridges (used) -Laundry detergent (sealed) -Pots & pans (gently used or new) -School Supplies (new) -Sheet sets (new- twin size for women and children) -Shower curtains with liners (new) -Women’s Toiletries (new-sealed) Please consider making a donation and please make sure to call 201/333-5700 ext 537 to schedule an appointment before dropping items off. Unfortunately, we cannot pick up items. We also need a volunteer with a truck to donate their time and service to help us get larger items that our clients need from time to time. All donations are tax-deductible. We will be able to provide you with a receipt for this purpose. For more information or to volunteer your time or vehicle, call 201/333-5700 ext 537. Our Wishlist We’re featuring another WomenRising program that empowers families to achieve self-sufficiency & live safe, fulfilling, productive lives. Since October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, our DVRT, Domestic Violence Response Team is in this month’s spotlight: Program Spotlight: Domestic Violence Response Teams (DVRT) Department: Domestic Violence Services Contact: Margaret Abrams 201-333-5700 ext. 544 Description: A partnership of WomenRising, law enforcement agencies of Hudson County, and community volunteers providing support and assistance to victims of domestic violence and their families at the police department. Work: Specially–trained volunteers explain domestic violence laws to victims, identify the services each client needs, refer clients to services at WomenRising, assist clients to seek shelter, explain the dynamics of domestic violence, provide emotional support, and assist victims in preparing a safety plan. Funding: Receives funding from VAWA, the Violence Against Women Act Coverage: Established teams are making a difference in Bayonne, East Newark, Guttenberg, Harrison, Kearny, Hoboken, North Bergen, Secaucus, and Union City and training will begin in November ’07 for a team in Jersey City. To Get Involved: If you’re interested in becoming a part of the solution to end domestic violence in our community and would like to meet others who share the same passion, please contact Margaret at 201/333-5700 ext. 544.
In order to receive your WomenRising e-newsletter promptly and correctly, please make sure you add akoenig@womenrising.org to your regular address book or "non-bulk" address list.  To unsubscribe to "The Rising Star" WomenRising Inc's E-Newsletter, send a blank e-mail from the address you wish to delete to akoenig@womenrising.org and put "unsubscribe" in your subject line. In order to receive your WomenRising e-newsletter promptly and correctly, please make sure you add akoenig@womenrising.org to your regular address book or "non-bulk" address list.  To unsubscribe to "The Rising Star" WomenRising Inc's E-Newsletter, send a blank e-mail from the address you wish to delete to akoenig@womenrising.org and put "unsubscribe" in your subject line. WomenRising has a regular need for items to be donated. Please consider making a donation from the following list. In addition, we’ve registered an official wishlist with Target.com. Next time you’re shopping online, pop on over and look at our list (don’t forget that by going through igive.com you can help us twice with your purchase!) Here’s our regular list: -Bath towel sets (new) -Coats for women & children (gently used or new- please call for exact sizes needed) -Cell phones & batteries (used) -Comforters (new- twin size for women, children, and teens) -Curtains & blinds (call for size) -Crib sheet sets (new) -Ink Jet Cartridges (used) -Laundry detergent (sealed) -Pots & pans (gently used or new) -School Supplies (new) -Sheet sets (new- twin size for women and children) -Shower curtains with liners (new) -Women’s Toiletries (new-sealed) Please consider making a donation and please make sure to call 201/333-5700 ext 537 to schedule an appointment before dropping items off. Unfortunately, we cannot pick up items. We also need a volunteer with a truck to donate their time and service to help us get larger items that our clients need from time to time. All donations are tax-deductible. We will be able to provide you with a receipt for this purpose. For more information or to volunteer your time or vehicle, call 201/333-5700 ext 537.